I tend to agree with Lisa Rose...I was raised as a JW and I have battled my weight pretty much
all of my life, managing to get it under control in my mid-twenties. I found that the exercise made
me feel better, hence, my self-esteem was brought up. But you've got to realise this isn't just
your problem. You can't make someone work out or eat healthier or less portions. It sounds like
your wife may be suffering from a bit of depression and perhaps going to her GP to discuss her
options might work. Prozac did wonders for me. :)
I have been dating a wonderful man for two years...when we go out, he notices the looks that
I get from other men but he is confident in our relationship and I make it clear that I am not
interested in anybody else...ever. That's the best you can do to deal with the insecurity..and
believe me, I've been there.
It sounds like you're a great husband. There should be more like you.
Good luck.